30-Day Challenge To Become An Attractive Man (Final Part)
While an occasional lazy afternoon (or the whole weekend) staying in bed having sex can be very pleasurable and life affirming, there’s something extremely attractive, even magnetizing about being a driven man.
To wake up most mornings with a purpose and ready to take on the day, no matter what life throws at you.
This relentless drive to accomplish something, to make yourself into the man that you strive to be is the antidote to most “inner game” issues, such as fearfulness, anxiety, lack of confidence or neediness.
As the paragraph from “The Unchained Man” suggests, a driven man won’t have time to cry or obsess over a girl, he doesn’t get distracted by minutia like “what should I talk about?” or “should I ask her out?” because he sees the big picture.Simply put, because your mind is so preoccupied with “the big picture” – whatever it is for you – you don’t have the mental space to worry about those trivialities, which, interestingly, makes them solve themselves out on their own.